Written by Mrs. Lion and Caged Lion, a couple in a FLR or WLM involving male chastity. Some great, first-hand content and information and highly recommended resources. How can I get MORE (if you like it)/LESS (if you dislike it)/TO INCORPORATE this into my female-led relationship?

It’s not normally used to make the sub a butler to someone else, but mistress may just be wanting to appear gracious to other people. We think one misconception people might have about a FLR is that it is some weird, kinky whips and chains relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth in our marriage. Another misconception is that some people may feel the man in a FLR is somehow ‘weak”, or a pushover. Again, nothing could be further from the truth in our marriage. Gary is a very masculine, strong and assertive man. We feel it takes exceptional strength for a man in or society to take the subservient role in his marriage to a strong woman whom he respects. We both have the utmost respect for each other, and for the roles we have accepted to make sure our marriage flourishes. Gary is very dedicated to making Kathy’s life as the dominant partner as stress free and happy as possible. He gets much satisfaction from seeing kathy happy, and enjoys “serving” her to assure her happiness. Likewise, kathy is 100% committed to meeting gary’s needs as a dedicated and loving submissive husband. This type of relationship gives the power and the authority to the women fully, and allows her to run the home as she sees fit. Dominatrices usually do not offer oral sex or intercourse, as it is more about power and control than sex. It can lead to a harmonious and happy relationship where both partners get their deepest desires of dominance and submission met, and it can reduce the friction and tension that comes from pretending they want what society says is normal.This wife is the boss arrangement allows the woman free reign to explore her dominance in the home, and many women find that when given the power and responsibility to be in charge, they truly flourish. For many, they want their agreement of female dominance to encompass their time out, but it comes with an inevitable problem.

Simply, go and find something else to do. Maybe mistress just wants a bit of girly conversation, or to talk to somebody about something without the sub being present. List the 10 things that you WOULD LIKE TO INCORPORATE to your female-led relationship with your husband. While it is most common to think of the dominatrix as a woman wielding power over men, many do have female submissives. Also contrary to popular belief, the dominatrix doesn’t always inflict physical pain on the submissive. The domination may be verbal, involving humiliating tasks and servitude. Stop Talking– At the issuance of this command the sub is to desist from talking, or providing input. Be attentive to your partner’s needs. Boss your partner around and stay in control, but be responsive to what they ask for. Along with being responsive, know when to stop if your partner looks like they’re in pain. Some minor pain may be desired, but the partner should not be truly hurt.Maybe, you want to limit the behavior of a certain activity, like ‘rude joke-telling’ or something, and want a secret signal to tell him to stop doing that specifically. Tell us a little bit about yourselves. How old you are, how long you’ve been married (or, in a relationship), how you heard about domestic discipline, what made you start practicing, etc? Normally it means to think of an excuse and say we can’t make it. This allows your mistress to retain the high ground. The training may involve many things the main one of which is getting the husband in the correct slave mindset. Occasionally an idea about an activity will get floated, like being asked to go fishing next weekend, or would you both like to come round next Friday evening for a meal.

I love submissive men, in fact I keep a few around the house just to amuse me. Now that may not be something you are into and that is ok. The fact that there are many men who would give anything to be involved in a Female Led Relationship or as people like to call it these days (FLR) gives the world a little hope. After our little exercise, the changes that you should make so that you can enjoy more being the dominant party in your marriage should be obvious: make sure you get more of what you like, less (or none!) of what you dislike and add those other things that you are not yet getting but you would like. You already made notes about what you and your husband need to do to accomplish these things. It’s simple. Now you know what you need to do to make YOURSELF happy. Whether she is with people at a party or caught talking to someone, she wants to be removed from her current situation, but not leave.They also get to enjoy the kink benefits of having a Dominant wife, and when the wife is the boss, what she says in the bedroom is the way it goes as well.