As a result, they’ve never heard, much less seen, a big girl getting spanked with her mother’s hairbrush. Now the room is devoid of the smacking sound from the paddle and all that remains is some soft whimpering. While not necessarily as widespread as some might believe, the practice of over the lap disciplining of a difficult female was so accepted that my wife and I discussed it fairly early in our dating relationship. Spanking was a thorny social issue because, unlike sons, there is no upper age limit beyond which the occasional thrashing of an older daughter’s bare bottom ceases to be effective.

While I didn’t keep any records, I remember my wife required spanking about every two weeks at several points in our marriage. I don’t let my husband have anal with me it hurts alot but of course he loves it and I’d like to please him in that way how can I prepare my body for lack of better words to give him that? If he ever spanked my mother I am not aware, but I am aware that my mother is always respectful to him and is a “well behaved” wife.

When we were dating, as well as after we were first married, I bared my wife’s bottom before spanking it. Should I have him talk to my baby father since they are friends and have him explain how smooth our relationship went when it was filled up rules and punishment?

For instance on one occasion early on in our marriage, Kenton asked me to cook dinner for a client and his wife. He decided to use it to spank me but after more than 10 swats with no response out of me, he stood me up and got his belt again…i sure dont like that thing! We are alone in the living room, I will walk her over to an armless chair, sit down and motion for her to stand between my legs. After a few more minutes and another 20 or so hits with my hand, her bottoms are becoming nice and red! While she may not love the man at that particular moment, she most certainly learning to respect his natural authority over her as the pain and embarrassment take their toll on her vane notions of superiority.She went over my knee for the warmup, against the wall for the yardstick, and back over my knee for the homestretch. Feminism is about allowing us all to have the same rights and privileges, including the choice to be in the kind of relationship we want, or no relationship at all.

There are a lot of women — the times they are a’changing — rapidly — who LOVE anal intercourse — and they aren’t silly or stupid. Has any one explored, or know of any one who has investigated,, the conjecture that Feminism is mostly about freeing women from the rule of men, so that they may be ruled – and far more harshly – by other women? I will say that my first experience of being spanked by my husband went from “not soo bad” to “sakes he is serious”. In a parallel observation, I have argued that feminism opened the door to the exploitation of women by corporations.

All of the foregoing suggests that, underneath the cultural shift, biological forces are still at work in the lives of many women. At the same time, in their relationships with women, men on television and in the movies are often portrayed either evil or weak. They’ve been trained how to get between a woman’s legs rather than how to establish as long-term relationship. I often find myself in bed wondering whether the signs I’m seeing are real trangressions or just in my head, induced by hormonal swings.